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What to Discuss During EMDR Therapy


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Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is an effective approach to processing trauma and reducing its emotional impact. This process helps individuals address deeply rooted issues, guiding them toward healing and emotional relief. One common question for those new to EMDR is: "What should I discuss during therapy sessions?" Understanding what to share can make the process more productive.


Addressing Traumatic Experiences and Distressing Memories

The primary focus of EMDR therapy is identifying and addressing traumatic experiences or distressing memories that progress into eventual symptoms, such as anxiety, PTSD, or depression. These memories often involve moments when the individual felt powerless, unsafe, or overwhelmed. During the initial sessions, the therapist will work with the individual to pinpoint specific events or triggers that need reprocessing. This may include addressing the origins of these memories and the role they play in affecting thoughts, emotions, or behaviors.

Negative Beliefs from Trauma

It’s also essential to discuss any negative beliefs associated with the trauma. For example, a person may feel “I am not safe” or “I am not good enough” as a result of their experiences. Identifying these beliefs helps guide the EMDR process, as reprocessing traumatic memories often involves replacing these negative thoughts with more adaptive and empowering perspectives.


EMDR therapy is not limited to processing major traumas. Individuals can also discuss smaller, recurring stressors that contribute to emotional distress. These might include relationship challenges, workplace difficulties, or persistent fears. By exploring these components, individuals gain insight into how past events shape current reactions, enabling them to break free from negative thoughts and patterns. 


Feelings of apprehension or doubt about the therapy process are also worth discussing. EMDR can be an emotional experience, and being open about any concerns or resistance allows the therapist to provide reassurance and adjust the approach to ensure the individual feels safe and supported.


At Elevated Healing Treatment Centers, based in Woodland Hills and Los Angeles,  therapists guide clients through every step of the EMDR process, helping them determine what to prioritize. From significant traumatic events to daily stressors, the focus is on what feels most relevant and manageable for the individual. Over time, revisiting and reprocessing these topics helps individuals move forward with greater clarity, resilience, and emotional balance.

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